my dad built a racecar with his own hands he raced the figure 8 against many reckless men driving deadly, driving metal driving wicked, driving fast always towards that intersection just praying they won't crash once when sitting on his lap I asked "how do you not collide? when you're flying so fast to that crossroads how do you decide? who's gonna slow down, who's gonna give in maybe enough to let the other guy win? who's gonna take their foot off the gas maybe enough to let the other guy pass?" he said "son here's some advice you gotta promise that you'll never take the trick to it is my boy is that you never never hit the brake" he said "son don't grow up to be a racecar driver" he said "son don't grow up to be anything like your father" he said "look at my car it's been ripped in half and I'm lucky to be alive and when you turn sixteen I will teach you how to drive"